Yesterday I met with the plast surgeon to go over some questions I had regarding the surgery. Matt and I discussed what we heard, we discussed recovery, I prayed about it and we are going through with it.
I know that some of you were concerned whether this was the right thing to do or not, I want you to know that I appreciate your concern (really, I do), but I truly feel peace about this decision.
Some of you expressed concern about the doctor. Let me reassure you that the problems I am having now are not his fault. When having the mastectomy and reconstruction, it was thought that I wouldn't have to have radiation. But, as we all know, that all changed. Typically he doe not do implant reconstruction on a person who has radiation for a variety of reasons, but for me it was to late, we had already gone this route.
In the next few weeks (week really) I will post some specific needs, if you want to volunteer to help, that's fabulous and will be very appreciated, but we absolutely do not expect anyone to help either.
As of this moment, surgery is going to happen on June 6 (the first week the kids are home from school) at around 7:30 am (that's going to be an early arrival time... whew). I will be in the hospital for 3-5 days (which could prove to be our biggest obstacle). I will be able to drive again after about 2 weeks, (if you know me well, you know I'm not really good at this one, I like to sneak away)! Despite the fact that I will have 3+ drains (if you know me well, you know this was the WORST part of the last two surgeries for me) I will be able to shower (which makes having drains about 50% better)! I will be on some strong pain pills along with a pain pump for about 5 days. I think overall, in my head it was going to be much worse than what he has told me it's going to be, but only time will tell!
Right now I do have one need that doesn't need to be scheduled, but can be done at anytime... prayers.
Along with prayers for this surgery and recovery to go smoothly, I would also covet your prayers for my friend Kristi and her family. Also for another friend and her husband who are dealing with cancer and surgery.
I hate cancer!